Rethinking Wedding Favors: A Modern Take on a Classic Tradition

Recently, we shared a TikTok in our “Wedding Etiquette pt. 15” series, diving into the traditional practice of wedding guest favors. This sparked an engaging conversation about the relevance of these tokens in today’s weddings, and we couldn’t help but express our evolving views on this age-old custom. This had us Rethinking Wedding Favors, offering A Modern Take on a Classic Tradition.

The tradition of giving wedding favors is steeped in history, tracing back to the French aristocracy and upper classes. The term “wedding favor” originates from the French word bonbonnière, which literally means “box of bonbons.” These bonbonnières were luxurious small gift boxes filled with sweets or other treats, bestowed upon guests as a gesture of gratitude and to wish them good luck.

While this tradition carries a certain charm, we believe it’s time to modernize and personalize the concept of wedding favors. The days of generic chocolates, mints, and trinkets are behind us. Instead, we are advocating for favors that enhance the wedding experience, reflect the couple’s personality, and offer genuine value to guests. Here are some of our favorite contemporary favor ideas:

1. Calligraphy Keepsakes

Introduce a touch of elegance and personalization with a live calligraphy artist at your reception. They can create bespoke items for guests throughout the evening, such as luggage tags, themed cups, or key chains. These keepsakes not only align with your wedding theme but also provide a unique, memorable experience for your guests.

WBL : G + A Wedding
WBL : G + A Wedding
Photo Credit : Wedding Wire
Photo Credit : Be One Letter

 

2. Personalized Bottles

For weddings at vineyards, in Italy, or in Sonoma, consider gifting personalized bottles of wine or olive oil. Elevate this favor by having a sommelier on-site to educate guests about the bottle they’re receiving. This not only adds an interactive element but also deepens the appreciation of the gift.

Photo Credit : MICHELE BECKWITH
Photo Credit : Carats & Cake

3. Late Night Bites

If your celebration extends into the late hours, offer a “late night bite” option. Personalize containers or tickets and surprise your guests with a delicious treat they can enjoy immediately. This thoughtful gesture will be a welcome delight as the night progresses.

Photo Credit : ELYSE HALL PHOTOGRAPHY
WBL : M + K Wedding

 

4. A Flower for the Night

Channel the romance of classic movies with a single, beautiful flower or a small bouquet for each guest. This simple yet elegant gesture allows guests to enjoy a touch of natural beauty throughout the evening and take a piece of the celebration home with them.

WBL : M + K Wedding
WBL M + K Wedding

When selecting wedding favors, we like to follow a few guiding principles:

  1. Enhance the Experience: Does the favor add to the overall wedding experience?
  2. Personalization: Is the favor personalized for the guest?
  3. Practicality: Will guests actually want or use this item?
  4. Convenience: Is it easy for guests to use on-site or take home (considering travel, hotels, etc.)?

In reimagining wedding favors, we encourage couples to think beyond tradition and opt for items that are meaningful, memorable, and truly enhance their guests’ experience. Whether it’s through personalized calligraphy, a taste of fine wine, a late-night snack, or a romantic flower, the right favor can leave a lasting impression and a heartfelt thank you.

Emily & Ra’s Timeless Spring Celebration: A Dreamy Italian Inspired Wedding at Hilton Lake Las Vegas

Wedding Day Team:

Photographer: Amber & Co Photography

Videographer: Lex Get Raw

Venue: Lake Las Vegas Hilton

String Quartet: Las Vegas Music Oasis

Hair & Make-Up : Beauty Studios Inc

In the picturesque setting of early spring, amidst the allure of Lake Las Vegas, Emily and Ra embarked on a journey to bring the timeless romance of the Italian coast to life. Choosing the stunning Hilton Lake Las Vegas as their venue, the WBL team helped to craft a celebration that seamlessly blended classic elegance with natural luxury. Leaving a lasting impression on our couple and their guest.

 

A Romantic Setting To Say “I DO”

Nestled within the beauty of Hilton Lake Las Vegas, Emily and Ra found the perfect backdrop for their dream wedding. With its stunning Italian chapel overlooking the tranquil waters, the stage was set for a ceremony that exuded romance and sophistication. In the early spring sun, the couple exchanged vows in a heartfelt ceremony, surrounded by the love of their closest family and friends.

Tented Reception by the Water

Following the ceremony, guests were treated to a reception under a beautifully adorned tent. This offered all guest panoramic views of the gorgeous water at sunset. The atmosphere was nothing short of magical as laughter and joy filled the air, creating memories that will last a lifetime. The tented reception provided the perfect blend of elegance and intimacy, allowing guests to dine and dance the night away.

 

Timeless Elegance in Decor

Emily and Ra envisioned a wedding style that was both classic and natural. They asked our team for a focus on lush draping greens and timeless white florals. Working closely with our WBL design studio, we brought the couple’s vision to life in every detail of the wedding design. From the elegant drapery adorning the chapel doors to the exquisite floral arrangements gracing the reception tables, every element was meticulously curated to reflect the beauty of the Italian coast.

Floral Magic

The floral team at WBL design studio played a pivotal role in bringing Emily and Ra’s vision to fruition. In particular, when designing Emily’s unique bridal bouquet, a challenge arose. Following a delayed bloom, our specialty floral farm was unable to provide the requested stephanotis, crucial for the bouquet’s foundation. As a result, just two days before the wedding, our design team managed to procure the nearest substitute: white tweedia and lily of the valley.

Conclusion

As the night sky sparkled with stars, Emily and Ra’s timeless celebration came to a close. They headed off, leaving behind memories that will be cherished by everyone for years to come. From the romantic setting of Lake Las Vegas to the elegant decor, every aspect of their wedding day was a testament to their love. And as they embarked on the next chapter of their journey together, they knew that their love would only continue to grow stronger with each passing day.

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~Las Vegas Based Destination Wedding Planners~